question of the day

[johncomic]

i recently ran into a situation nearly identical to one that had me in quite a quandary about fifteen years ago... but this time i find i'm dealing with it completely differently. not purely on the basis of experience: i find that i'm quite naturally taking a different perspective on it. it's like how i see things, feel about things, etc. are way different than they were back then.

anyhoo, it got me thinking about how much i've changed over the years... sometimes like you'd expect, sometimes in ways i never woulda thunk. in some ways i'm a very different person now. not necessarily for good or for ill: just different, is all.

so: what would you say has changed most about you in the last, oh, say ten years or so? [and i mean changed about you as a person -- identifying receding hairlines and expanding waistlines is too easy ;) ] and how do you feel about this change?

i ask cuz i wanna know...

Comments

[jsmitty-o.livejournal.com]

I definitely have a better sense of humor and a more light hearted attitude toward life. I used to be too serious. Not serious all the time, but more so than now. I like to think I'm more balanced now than before. I think that transition started about 12 years ago, but it really began to take off around 10 or so ago.

Nice to see you around! I hope you've been doing well and have been pain-free, etc. =)

and he resurfaces! hallelujah!

[traypup.livejournal.com]

In the past 10 years, I have mellowed out a lot. Don't get me wrong, i still get uptight about certain situations, but in general? I'm more laid back about Rules, Religion, certain moralities. I don't try to run other people's lives and I don't boss around my siblings anymore.

I'm still working on it, though. :)

[rdcf.livejournal.com]

One word - self-esteem. I actually have some now. I was 22 10 years ago and a totally different person. I was drinking a lot, engaging in a lot of very dangerous behavior, severely depressed, completely irrespondable about money, you name it. I was incredibly screwed up.

Something happened to me 10 years ago this August that finally helped me hit rock bottom and get to work on turning my life around. I really strugged for the next 8 years, I wanted to make things better and I tried but failed most of the time. Turning 30 was a major turning point for me. In early 2001, I saw the birthday coming and it really lit a fire under me to finally get things together once and for all. And now I finally feel like a grown-up. I'm sober, I'm drug-free, I have a wonderful husband, great friends, a decent career and overall a great life. I'm not always happy and there are still plenty of areas that I'm still working on but I'm more happy than sad, angry or frustrated and view my life as extraordinarily boring and I love it!

And yay Curmudge posted!

[angelamermaid.livejournal.com]

I understand now that when you really care about your job and you take risks, you like your job.

you are certainly an interesting lot!!

[johncomic.livejournal.com]

thanx for your responses to date, and nice to see yuz again! :)